The progress and positive change experienced by a young person supported at Millhouse residential children’s home has been described as ‘magical’ by a social worker.
Joe* had experienced significant neglect at home among which he been left to his own devices and had struck up inappropriate conversations and relationships with some of those he met while on-line gaming, putting him at real risk.
From the first day of moving to Millhouse the team worked closely with Joe to set firm boundaries and rules, one of which was that no smart phones were allowed and, that over time, as trust built, then so could online access.
The team delivered on all of their promises to Joe and he, in turn, responded very well to having clear expectations and boundaries.
He didn’t miss his phone or online contact, in fact, he thrived in other creative ways including building a board game from scratch. He plays chess and board games, loves barbecues, going to Peak activity services, the local crocodile farm and building tents. In short, he’s learned there’s more to life than devices. Even though he could now access a phone or gaming, he shows little interest in doing so.
Joe accesses education online and is doing well. The team are looking for a school for him and, on a recent visit his social worker said the change in him was ‘magical’.
Manager at the home, which is rated ‘outstanding by Ofsted, Saddia said: “We set out our stall from day one, really welcoming children with open arms and show them that they are loved and welcomed. One of our other young people baked a cake for Joe as she could remember how nervous and worried she was when she moved in.
“We also make sure that the young person knows they can get support, whatever support they need, and that we will fulfil our promises. They understand right from the start what the expectations are on all sides and we think that’s a key part to our success.”
